Grooming young wife episode

First off, thanks for this podcast. It has given me so much to think about. Second, the grooming your young Christian wife episode - especially the part about making sure she is 25 or younger - reminded me of how adult humans’ part of the brain that establishes a sense of self continues to develop until about 25-27. So, essentially, the person you referenced is urging men to shape their wives’ sense of sense around their own preference before the wives can establish their own.